Be sure to ask if the resource has taken mediation courses, and how much training and experience they have. Also ask if they are certified in basic mediation, family mediation, and/or any other areas. Every mediator and mediation process is a bit different, but they generally follow the same path.

Is there a public record of divorce mediation?

It is confidential. There is no public record of what goes on during the mediation process. Mediation typically costs less than litigation or collaborative divorce. Mediation is less adversarial than litigation which reduces the animosity and can help preserve a working relationship.

Do You Lose Your Right to mediation in a divorce?

Choosing mediation does not in any way cause you to lose your right to litigate your divorce in front of a judge. Anything that took place during mediation will remain confidential (except for signed written agreements and financial affidavits). Mediation may still be an option even when domestic violence is present in a marriage.

Can a family law attorney refer you to a mediator?

If you are working with a family law attorney, they will be able to refer you to local mediators. If you are representing yourself, you can ask for recommendations from financial advisors, therapists, spiritual advisors or friends who have used a mediator for their own divorce.

How long does it take for divorce mediation to work?

Every case is different, but a typical divorce mediation usually takes several sessions over three to six months. It’s not uncommon for more complex cases to take significantly longer.

How much does divorce mediation cost per hour?

In most cases, costs are shared between the two divorcing parties. Mediators in private practice can charge anywhere from $100 all the way up to $1,000 per hour, but most fall in the $100 to $300 per hour range. You need to ask about fee structure as part of your due diligence efforts.